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EVERGLOW
THE REBECCA KRUZA
FOUNDATION
Everglow sunflower – The Rebecca Kruza Foundation
The Everglow Foundation Campaign is dedicated to improving Maternity and Perinatal Services to help prevent: Birth Trauma, the development and escalation of ill mental health and maternal suicide, and the unnecessary suffering to Mothers, Babies, Fathers, Siblings and Families, and to establish nationwide clinical excellence and tender loving care in these services.
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Rebecca said many times

“All I really need is respite, Mum.”

Rebecca Kruza

Our First Focus
A Residential Mother And Baby Respite Home
Initially for Dover, for struggling mothers and their babies.
A place where mums and their babies have the space to rest, take time out and receive therapeutic care to recuperate, feel safe and be cared for.
A mother sleeping
A frustrated father
A tired mother and baby
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The Respite Home
What Our Respite Home Will Offer
Our Mother and Baby Respite Home will provide early, preventative support for mothers experiencing mild to moderate perinatal mental health difficulties.

Their Own Bedroom

Each mother and her baby will have their own bedroom.

A Home From Home

All the home comforts and domestic facilities.

Caring Staff

Supported by our ‘matrons’ and auxiliary staff.

Early Support

Intervening before distress escalates to crisis point.
Who Will Be There For You

Matrons

Qualified in perinatal care, as a ‘housemother’

Carers & Students

Qualified health and social care students from local colleges, and trusted carers

Mentors

Voluntary mentors to talk to in confidence

Therapists

Offering holistic treatments, for example massage, sound and light, and baby bonding

Students will help with baby care and household tasks under supervision, giving mums time for therapy and bonding. Our care will be holistic, restorative and therapeutic, in line with guidance from the British Psychological Society and the APPG Beyond Pills panel of experts.
Until The Mid 1990s

Respite Homes were available, avoiding the development of maternal/perinatal mental illness and escalation to suicide.

Today

Research shows there is no equivalent Mother & Baby Residential Respite Home in the UK, and maternal mental illness has recently increased 20%.

Everglow

An improved reinstatement of this successful model, provisionally in our Dover area, as a safety net for struggling mothers.

Why We Know It Works

Examples Around The World

A successful example of residential respite home care exists in New Zealand. This model has been recognised for reducing maternal distress, preventing mother–baby separation, and supporting long-term child development. Our respite home will run on the same model and aims.

Across the globe, many forms of respite are found in
New ZealandSwedenHollandFranceIndiaChinaLaos
New Zealand · South Auckland

St Gianna’s Home for Mothers & Babies

A residential home with experienced staff, offering a family environment, and respite care and time out for mums and their babies.

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Rebecca Kruza, the photographer, circa 2010
Campaigning Since 2018
Our Fight For A Respite Home Began In 2018
Rebecca said many times that she needed respite, but was afraid of being separated from her baby, because mother and baby psychiatric units run that risk, whereas respite homes, like ours will be, will keep them together and prevent the need for psychiatric treatments.
That same year, The Guardian reported that women across the UK were being denied mental health care around childbirth, and we have been working towards a Mother and Baby Respite Home ever since.
We are not political; we have to go where the problems take us. Our respite home has always been our focus.
What We Are Working Towards
Our Aims
1
Aim One
Respite Homes
Reinstate residential respite home care for struggling mothers and babies in the Dover community, to nationwide
2
Aim Two
Maternity Services
Improved maternity services and birthing methods, reducing unnecessary interventions, caesareans, birth trauma and post natal distress to create trust in the delivery room
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131)Fury And Exhaustion After 9 Futile Years Of Getting Nowhere→ 129)Everglow The Rebecca Kruza Foundation Is Screaming Out For Maternity Improvements→ 102)This Is Why We Need A Mother And Baby Respite Home→ 126)Dear Wes Streeting, The UK Maternity Crisis Is Now: We Can’t Just Wait For An Inquiry→ 110)Maternal Mental Health Crisis NHS→ 109)Threadbare NHS Maternity Care Will Lead To Tragic Consequences, Health Experts Warn→
Support From Kent And Medway Mental Health NHS Trust
“I would like to acknowledge the passion, commitment and perseverance that you and your colleagues continue to demonstrate in advocating for women and families affected by perinatal mental illness. I recognise the importance of the work you are undertaking and the difference you hope to make for mothers, babies and their families. I would also encourage you to continue pursuing charitable, grant and other external funding opportunities which may be available to support the development of the respite home.”
Dr Afifa Qazi, Chief Medical Officer, Kent and Medway Mental Health NHS Trust, September 2026
Rebecca with her baby
Aim Three
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Rebecca’s Law
To safeguard mothers and their babies when high risk medications are prescribed
Safeguard mothers and babies where psychotropic medications and SSRI anti-depressants are used and instigate a review of mirtazapine
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This will ensure that the dangers are explicitly known to mothers and carers, monitored and that procedures are in place when side effects emerge
Our Campaign Also Calls For
Improvements to Maternity and Perinatal Care

A Patient Centred And Balanced Approach:

For mothers, fathers/partners/carers, doctors and midwives to work together to create a level playing field during pregnancy and labour.

Promotion Of Midwifery Skills:

To allow midwives to practise improved birthing techniques that avoid unnecessary interventions, emergencies and birth trauma, and to create trust based on listening and encouragement.

Informed Consent Before The Point Of Crisis:

Informed consent to be gained before the point of crisis, with all information relevant to pregnancy and birth thoroughly discussed and agreed, not on a ‘need to know basis’.

Pre-Discharge Counselling And Baby Skills:

Routine counselling and baby skills before discharge, especially where difficult and traumatic births have occurred.

Mandatory Post Natal Visits And Monitoring:

Regular, mandatory face to face visits and monitoring with the Health Visitor and GP once a mother is discharged by her midwife. Where signs and symptoms of mental distress appear, easy access to domestic and psychological support, extended to fathers/partners and carers.

Confidentiality To Be Breached:

When a patient’s life is at risk and they are expressing suicidality, confidentiality should be breached, in order to save their life.

The Cost To Society
£12.5 billion
Estimated every year (2026)
70%
Accounted for by the long term adverse impact on the child and victims of perinatal mental illness and suicide
The cost in human terms is inestimable.
Events
Raising Funds Together
We host events to raise funds which are fun for everyone and benefit the community.
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Folkestone 10K Coastal Run, May 2024
Rebecca with her baby
What Do We Need?
We are crying out to Mums, Dads, families, and maternity professionals to ask you to lend your support with your knowledge, experiences, and time, to give us the impetus to help in making East Kent Maternity Services a model of excellence, without further procrastination.
PLEASE CONTACT US CONFIDENTIALLY FOR INFORMATION OR TO DISCUSS ANY ISSUES RAISED BY OUR CAMPAIGN.